The Island of Misfit Toys: An optomitrist

The Island of Misfit Toys: An optomitrist

So I wrote about this a while ago. My kung fu teacher is having a hard time with this woman he is interested in and he has been asking me for advice about her. It is simply the most endearing thing I have ever experienced in my life.

We were supposed to get together at the studio tonight so I wanted to check in with him and called him up. After we got that out of the way there was the briefest of pauses. I asked him "is there something you want to tell me, sifu?" There was.

So, he needed to check in with me about the girl again. She is only texting him now. Are you interested in her? I asked him. Yes, definately. he said. So I told him to call her once a day until she responds and take her out. Make sure she knows you are interested I told him.

It is a touchy situation. He is extremely hesitant and unsure of himself. While I find this unbelievable, I also understand that if I am going to help him with this I am going to have to respect that he feels that way. I figure this woman just can't figure my sifu out cause he is being so ambiguous with her. The only way to know if there is anything there is for him to put himself out and deal with the consequences. I figure he is super strong he can handle it. She has already contacted him on her own to go out for dinner, so I figure she is interested too but just needs a stronger move from sifu.

It is interesting because I realize that I can not approach this the way that I would approach it myself. But I love having the opportunity to help out with this thing! It is really fun!

Who else needs relationship advice?!